Ballerina

I was never in dance growing up.  Not that I wouldn’t have been, it’s just that I grew up in a small town in South Dakota and I don’t think that dance classes were a super high priority. I’m pretty sure I could have found a class in my town on learning how to drive a tractor, how to properly wrestle a calf, or maybe even How To Apply Crisco While Tanning on Barn Roofs. But dance, not so much.

Now, however, we have found ourselves the parents of a little girl who is creating a tutu situation around here that is a little ridiculous. We recently decided that maybe we needed a place to channel some of her frilly, twirly energy before our house explodes into a cloud of tulle and ribbons and fancy shoes and they never find our bodies.

 

Here are some things I didn’t realize before signing my daughter up for her first dance class:

1. That I would need to take out a second mortgage or sell a kidney in order to buy, not only ballet AND tap shoes, but also the hot pink leotard tutu concoction that became lodged in my daughter’s vise-like grip at the local dance store. Note to any other mothers out there thinking of taking their child into a store specifically made for dance; Don’t.

2. That I would underestimate my daughter’s attachment to her new dance things. After putting on the entire ensemble once we got home, including tap shoes, she began to fall, repeatedly, on our wood floor because of the slippery shoe bottoms. Eventually I said, “Maybe you should take your tap shoes off so you don’t break you bottom today.” But, in her desperation to continue to wear the super fancy, future-head-injury-disguised-as-a-pair-of-shoes she said, “I’ll just crawl mom. See! I like crawling!”

3. That I would soon realize why the dance instructor briefly allowed the parents in the dance room to help don our children’s tap shoes and take a couple of pictures and then politely told us to get the heck out. The kids would have never been able to hear the Frozen sound track over the audible swooning and the,  Oh My Gawds!!! and, They Are So Cutes!!! and the, Look at them tap their darling little tap shoes’!!!”

4. That the first dance class might turn the mother’s into women that they didn’t quite recognize. There was only one tiny side window in which we could all see about half the class at any one time. There may have some polite shoving involved. I don’t really remember. We were all very excited.

5. I didn’t understand what an amazing bargaining tool that the hot pink tutu concoction would be. Getting a three-year-old to listen to all of the words that are coming out of your mouth is challenging. Unless…you have leverage. That dance dress has become the ultimate leverage. “If you throw your brother’s art project all over the room because you are angry at him, you are choosing to lose your dance dress.” or, “If you continue to make going to bed into an MMA Fighting Championship, you are choosing to lose your dance dress.” or even, “If you continue to talk to me in a voice that only dogs can hear, you are choosing to lose your freaking dance dress!”

6. How she would tell everyone, including every checkout person we see, our garbage lady, or anyone accidentally making eye contact with her, about her “Dance Party” and her “New dwess! That twirls and sparkles!” And is, of course, hand-wash only.

7. That I would need to make a deep investment into Woolite because I am going to be hand-washing that thing every day of my life.

8. That she would be so invested in dancing that, one day, her teacher would come out and say, “She will do everything I ask her to do, everything, but she insists that I call her Prima Ballerina.

9. And well, the cuteness. Oh my.

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6 thoughts on “9 Things I Didn’t Realize Before Signing My Daughter Up For Dance Class

  1. She is awfully cute… Thanks for giving me a sneak preview. I have a feeling dance is probably in our future as well.

    1. joellewisler says:

      I think you are probably right!!!

  2. Ellen says:

    Joelle, we had this same experience last year, so this made me laugh out loud! We’re in our second year now, and our 4-year-old (also a Nora!) still loves the twirling and sequins!

    1. joellewisler says:

      Please tell me they can wear the shoes for at least 2 years?! 🙂

      1. Amber Simmons Lyle says:

        No. She cannot. Soph is wrapping up her 8th year, yes I said 8th year of dance. Just so you understand, as they get older they are introduced to MORE classes such as jass, hip hop, technique etc. You are in for a lot of shoes, a lot of leos…..but don’t worry….the frilly and sparkly will soon turn into booty shorts and crop tops. Yeah, you heard me. Boot-ay shorts. Good luck!!

  3. Richard Kern says:

    What’s still ahead of you: attending 3-hour-long rehearsals of “The Nutcracker” for 8 evenings in a row for your little darling’s 1.5 minute part in the second-to-last scene because the directrix thinks that this “inspires the young ones;” finding out that the average lifespan of $90 toe shoes is about 2 months; during the 3-performance run, getting volunteered for everything from collecting tickets, wrangling costumes, selling bouquets at intermission, and cleaning up the emesis of a little snowflake who decided to fill up on HoHos and grape soda before her stage debut.

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